Acceptance.....:)

Acceptance ,just a simple word but held a lot of meaning within it. acceptance is a process of growing up....acceptance is a way to find peace  n acceptance is certainly a new way to change. i hear many time people saying to me that human's hunger is insatiable...we awl want more in our life regardless of what we already have. a poor man struggling to feed his family would feel blessed to have sum more money in his pocket.....he wouldnt care if he owns a gadget or not bcoz it doesn't matter to him on the other end a middleclass guy wants to live a luxurious life bcozz for him his status is just not enough.. n many time it creates problems ..my one friend had indulged in bad influence n had a great difficulty to get out of it.....when i talk abt acceptance it means acceptance in alot of ways...i remember being a little 9 yr old  wanting to have a computer in my home(those broad, bigscreens, windows98 ones) because one of my friends used to have it and it was still a luxury at that time in india but i had accepted that i wudnt get one bcoz we cant afford it....today sitting before my lap n writting here in this blog i feel that it was for good in the end atleast i have learned to admire things  n have enjoyed my childhood days in a way a child should be..playing with friends having fights, learning  how to forgive n move on  bcoz its easy wen uh r a child. i was a social butterfly in sum way n that led me into another form of acceptance....acceptance of people's flaws n more importantly my ownselve's. In my childhood my most selfish friends were those who wudnt share their tiffin or crayons with me but now things have changed,....nw m dealing with far more mature friends (i dnt knw if shud even call them that) with more differences in tastes n ideals...while growing up one can easily understands the meaning of actual selfishness with  fake friends, neck breaking competitions, n so on.....i do have sum kind n great friends ( m lucky yipeee) but it dont make the truth less sour.....there comes a time wen we awl feel betrayed n hurt ,a cost we have to pay for trusting wrong people, we break we hurt n finally we come to realise  that its just a phase n it will pass,,,,,finally we accept.Accept the things the way they are......we learn that though our life is not picture perfect but its still beutiful :)  <3