Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Why Iñdïá ñèèds f3mîñîßm !! :¶

Hey guys wassup?? Hw r uh all doing?? Hopefully well?? :)
        Well as the title suggests today m gonna talk about feminism :p ohkk before uh all start freaking out saying ...."ohhh hell no....not another one of those crazy bitches" :p let me me make it clear :p there is a difference between a feminist n a feminazi :p n so I wanna humbly assure u all that m not a manhating, extremist feminazi bt rather a peace loving, freedom loving lil gal who just wanna be treated with respect n modesty in this male dominated hypocritical society we are living in :)
         Today I was sitting with my batchmates n we were talking about stuffs n suddenly I don't exactly remember why but one of the guy commented about how girls are less "intelligent" than guys :p n before I can reprimand him for this....one of my female friend agreed to that shit saying he is right -_- I mean seriously?? WTF was dat.
              Its already so hard to break the stereotype about girls being weaker sex n less capable than guys.....n now girls saying that thing is even more discouraging :/  I mean how the hell the situation is gonna get better if the main participant quit before the game even starts :p
           I know there are gals out there who want to try the age old technique of a happy life (which m not even sure works) i.e marrying a rich guy n spend his money :p (dare I tell uh, i have few girls like that in my friend circle)  but then there are girls like me too :p who wanna earn money ,status n all that shit by myself..now don't forget that >_< how can someone judge a whole species just like that n  saying that girls just want money bcozz they can't earn it :p
             N that is exactly why India needs feminism :p n mind i tell uh its probably a lil different than America...well just a lil :p India needs feminism not because men think that women are dumb (who gives a fishhhhh about them anyways ;) )  but rather because women are brainwashed enough to think that they are dumb  :p because women n men alike thinks that being harrased by catcalls n lil bit touching here n dere in public places is absolutely normal n it is something a gal shudnt mind DAT much :p . Because women thinks that it is okay for a guy to have double standards n date other girls while lecturing their sisters about how it is absolutely horrible to date a guy because apni izzat to apne hath hoti h "ladki" :p , Feminism is needed in India because guys thinks that calling a girl "Item" ,"Tota" , "Maal" increase her dignity 10 times over n there is nothing wrong with it ..while girls pride over being called a "TOTTA  :p , well this point might not be just about India but all the other countries as well ...where calling names using female synonyms is nothing to be bothered about whether it is about "ma*******" "r**d" "t*** maa ki ***#" or about *motherf*****" etc .It is women degrading uh know DAT?? Oh uh never noticed before?? ....ohh that's fine nobody does ^_^ not even women bcozz hey gals are bzzy calling other gals names :p
            I think its big time that we girls come to our senses n stop being a nonsense :p yes being a nonsense because everytime a woman call other women names or agree with guys while they are doing that....its stupid :p yesss don't give out that women empowerment n equality shit while doing the exactly opposite  :p n for the heroes of the story :p Will it be too much for uh all "mards" to stop being one n be a "human" first?? . Will it be too much for uh all to not open doors for us but rather open ur mouth n say something good??
         Respect n a genuine compliment is not too much fr uh all right?? :p
Anyways so yeah ....I can go on n on n on about this  but let it be for today no?? :D I don't want uh all to fall asleep here....so will continue this sum other time :)
               Till then let's try to bring the change by being one....sayonara ;)

Monday, February 16, 2015

Bôrîñg Ràmblîñgs ;p

Hey guys was sup?? How r uh all doing?? ;) well m really tired right now so m gonna keep this short :) so yes the world celebrated Valentine's day two days ago....well I had a lunch party with my friends n we were celebrating in a small cozy  downtown restaurant .
                 The most interesting thing to see was numbers n numbers of policemen all around the city, roaming here n there (as if there is nothing more important than catching innocent couples n getting them married ) :p There were check post  everywhere n they would just ask all the by passers to stop just to see whether they are couple or not n if yes then, are they married or not ?? Lolll it was hilarious to see how much they are all concerned with this Valentine thing....when there are more pressing topics out there . :p but sadly that's not the case.....I guess BCoz fr them ,it is more important to stop this supposed to be nonsense (love) than stopping the actual one( rape, eve teasing , pissing in public etc etc mind uh) ;p ohhh yes being humiliated n getting eve teased by those creepy unknown men on the roads n have them ogling all over uh is not that big deal right??
           Anyways so yeah i enjoyed a lot ( of course I have such a sweet n loving friends) :* but the whole time this scenario kept repeating in my mind n I was left wondering that no matter how much pride I take about being a part of this youngistan n no matter how much modern n developed we claim ourselves to be....that incident showed an entirely different picture to me :/ We are still far behind from that ideal country our great leaders wanted it to be !! Because people are having their issues n sentiment lying in the wrong places , Because people just don't care, Because " is desh ka much nahi ho payega bhaiya"  :p
                 Its time to understand our priorities , to recognize them n implement them where they are actually needed !! Its time to make the country a lil more safer for the females n let them grow :) Its time to follow rules. Its time to set out fr a change n for that the first thing is to understand What should be given more importance than these petty matters out there :p
           Anyways there are so many things I really want to write right now.....but it seems like m out of energy so yeah sayonara to all ,take care :)

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Jèálôüs €ñôûgh??

Well hello folks!!!! Wassup?? How are you all doing?? Its again been so long since I have written here.....well exams r over so m looking fr a part-time right now...let's see what happens ;)
                Anyways so today I am gonna talk about something which we all have felt and experienced at one point or other in our life :D yup!! Jealousy :/
          
Well being honest I get jealous very easily n I accept the fact that I have practically envied every effin person in my life who have outdone me in something lol (including my friends :p)....so I was really curious if all of you who are reading this post have gone through the same?? Have uh ever envied your friend for being a better dancer or singer ??or maybe  envied their capabilities for being so effin good in literally everything they do??
         Well I have this friend of mine and she is just effin perfect . she is a good dancer,a good singer ,have good dressing sense n on the top of that a looker ;) I just envy her so much.....n the bad thing is its getting to me. Though she don't know about this but I feel like a bad person every time i compliment her on something because i feel like m lying and hiding this sheer jealousy behind my facade. 
          Well as a result it slowly started to drift us apart lolll sounds so cliche right ;) but yeah I had this issue here and I had to deal with it.
        
                Well its not an easy thing to do certainly ...but one have to start somewhere right?? The first thing that i did was....I started pretending .(really u should try that too :D it works ) Not pretending to be happy but to be genuine in my compliments :)  I have read somewhere that keep pretending and it will turn into reality or some stuff :p lol so trying ;)
             Another thing one can do is take this emotion positively.... Or if u are a Capricorn uh can take this as a challenge ;) n improve urself !! Turn it into a driving force that will help you to be something far better :) I did that n it works . I asked her help n she helped me with my dance thing ....I dance a lot better now thnxx to her ^_^
                       Well ultimately m at peace with myself. Even though I still feel a streak of this negative emotion , I know how to deal with it!! With time we come to understand that nobody is perfect ...we all have our faults but our perseverance n patience can bring us a long way. M getting better day by day...n its the best feeling one can have :) growing n to know that some day uh will be mature enough to see beyond anyone's perfections and faults and understand the better meaning of it ,the real person  ...I mean that's lyf right??
The show must go on ;) sayonara :*